Half the reason people aren't successful is that they " CARE about what others think of them," and THAT'S where you go WRONG! Right now, your #1 concern should be getting your "CLOSURE,"  and THAT will be your LAST WORD from someone who hurt you. You shouldn't care about how others feel about how you get your healing; you don't need anyone's permission on 'HOW' to care for your mental health; people are committing suicide ALL over the world because they're STUCK! They're scared of what others will think of them if they make certain decisions. Sometimes, it's hard to stop thinking about the things a predator did, and words you should have said, and what they DID say. That's why a lot of you sit around ruminating, because you didn't speak the words you wanted to say

NO MORE; We'll be your voice, you WILL be "HEARD." You'll get your closure AND the 'LAST' word!

And then it's time for "COURAGE." At some point it's 'TIME' to let people know they blew their nose with the WRONG person. These DELUSIONAL human decepticons will steal ALL of your time if you permit it; at the least, they want you to lose your mind. Most of them don't mind if you go and off yourself somewhere because they have insurance on you; I know that sounds harsh, and it possibly isn't YOUR situation, but it IS real and someone else's. I don't waste time speaking of things I don't have knowledge or experience in.

I created "BLOODLINES" for the men and women who've been molested and raped by several family members, and they want to break from the family but feel guilty because they're FAMILY; well, they're NOT "FAMILY," because REAL family is nurturing, not RAPESTS AND MOLESTERS. I'm so sorry that you went through what you did; HOWEVER, I'm glad that you're HERE, because you need to understand that "God allows certain things to happen in our lives to build us spiritually for our next level."  When I was 6 years old I was going to commit suicide, I wasn't raped or molested back then, however, there were other things a child shouldn't have experienced, but I did; and, God used it, I've helped so many people though the years, and I'm very proud to say "I'm HEALED" and walking in PURPOSE, and THAT'S where I want to see YOU, I don't want you back here buying different video lettercards because you're scared of what others will think of you if you departed from your abusive family members or are continually inviting the wrong people in your life and are still being hurt.

PEOPLE: We only live one life here on earth; what you do with your time here is on YOU. We ALL have the CAPABILITIES to usher our pain into PURPOSE, AMMUNITION, AND POWER. One of my psychological mentors (motivational speaker, Les Brown) said: "If you fall, make sure that you land on your back, because if you can see up, you can GET UP." I AGREE; And my other psychological mentor (Dr. Phil) would always ask, "How's that working for you?" I added his words because sometimes in life WE SETTLE and make EXCUSES not to move on because we're too scared of the UNKNOWN. When it comes to your healing, I don't want that for you, so where you are right now, "How's that working for you?" Within YOURSELF,  you hold the power to change the narrative others placed on you. TODAY you have the opportunity to become your own producer, director, and STAR in your life by sending your video lettercard, and then allowing me to help to REBUILD you into a STRONGER version of yourself. God allowed you to go through the things you went through, so that you'll grow from it and overcome for a 'GREATER' purpose. A lot of you have books, movies, television series, etc to write and help others in the same manner I'm helping you through, and that's experience, strength, and hope, but you'll never make it to where God has for you until you LET GO of the past.

Most people have suffered from trauma, be it childhood or later in life; whatever the case, it has caused some disorder or disorders, such as anxiety, ptsd, panic attacks, along with different dependencies, and now you're co-dependent on people, substances, places, or things; EXAMPLES: material things, positions, platforms, etc. I want to BREAK something down to you all. There are ONLY 3 types of people on this earth: EMPATHS, People of empathy, nice, kind-hearted individuals, and then you have your NARCISSISTS Human "DECEPTICONS," they LIVE to deceive, manipulate, and HURT others by ANY means; once you allow them into your life, they feel as if you're WEAK AND STUPID, which is lower than THEM, so they feel as if they're ENTITLED to treat you ANY type fo way; all you have to do is THINK back and you'll start to remember how they treated EVERYONE better than they did you, EVEN STRANGERS, they REALLY feel as if you DESERVE what they do to you for inviting and keeping them in your life, they need you to feel a constant state of INSECURITY, because that's the mindset they live in, YES, that sounds twisted, but that's a NARC for you; trust me, I've accessed and personally know many of them, a few even did so much as admit this to me. And last but NOT least, you have the EMPATHS with NARCISSISTIC "FLEAS." Have any of you ever seen the movie "Invasion of the Body Snatchers?" Well, that's the empath with narcissistic fleas; they're empaths that have been so badly damaged through the ABUSE that they developed some of the narcissists charactoristics, and are now so similar to the Narcissist; if you put them into a room with one, you won't be able to tell the difference; they might as well BE one (but their the ones that God can still help (He's ALREADY taken His hands off of the Narcissists; Romans 1:28 in the King James Version (KJV) states: "And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a 'REPROBATE MIND,' to do those things which are not convenient" ). The empaths with narcisists fleas, are now liars (when you don't say anything, THAT'S considered lying as well), cheaters, users, abusing their authority for WHATEVER reasons, some are even out there dating for the sole purpose of REVENGE, they want to hurt people in the way the narsisists hurt them, because they only went NO CONTACT after the abuse and didn't DO THE WORK, their hearts are cold, and they 'now' DECEIVE THEMSELVES into believing they're ok; but they're not because they've allowed their pain to kill their innocence, some used to be good wives and husbands, but NO MORE; If you know any,  just pay attention to their moves, they're back-and-forth in MANY relationships, JUST LIKE NARCS, constantly directing their anger at the PERP, but are out there STILL dating them, some of these people are ADDICTED to the DRAMA that comes with these "TOXIC" choices, some don't take any accountibility. I once heard Oprah Winfrey say, "Use the world as a classroom." I did, and most of what I was seeing was psychological and spiritual CORRUPTION. I see way too much POINTING and not enough 'LOOKING IN THE MIRROR.'  

Most of you who have ever been in relationships with toxic people suffer from HYPERVIGILANCE, and what that entails is CONSTANT scanning for danger or threats in people, places, or things. Your mind is in a continual state of suspicion and distrust; unfortunately, some of you STILL go out and try to attach yourself to relationships of intimacy, then wonder, 'WHY can't you find anyone good?' Predators smell 'PEOPLE PLEASERS' and INTENSE NEEDINESS from miles away. I want to get you all where you can IDENTIFY what's going on with yourselves and others; whether you buy a video lettercard or not, allow me to send you my ' PSYCHOLOGICAL & SPIRITUAL TAKEOUT CONTAINER' for FREE. Knowledge is POWER; when you know what's going on, it's easier to fight. Also, after you get the WRONG people out of your life, you can now get a closer connection with your Creator, find out WHY you're here, and start to walk in PURPOSE. After you're in a healthier mental space, He'll start sending the RiGHT people. I couldn't tell you this if I hadn't experienced it myself. One of the BEST feelings in the world is to 'Walk around being YOURSELF, and not caring who likes it or not, and not needing ANY validation from 'ANYONE,' even being deliberately rejected, and STILL being ok with it, because you KNOW "WHO" you are, people. THAT'S what real 'SELF-ESTEEM' is.

I know that some of you think that you're too old and it's too late to find LOVE or be happy; NOT TRUE. When you're in a HEALTHY mindset, it's ATTRACTIVE to others, and it magnetically draws people of all kinds to you. When your mind is healthy, you will know WHO to allow in your life;  an UNHEALTHY mind will invite people they need to FIX so they can feel worthy and praised by the broken, not understanding; when you do things like that, you get disrespected by that same person because you lowered your worth, and now you're in the bargain basement with the BROKEN. When you're in a position of leadership of any kind, and God sends someone into your life, it's to help them in whatever areas; but when 'YOU' have a desperate NEED, you distort the purpose of their presence and start having physical relations with them, and of course it blows up in your face because neither of you are HEALED, and now you're complaining about how there are NO real relationships or marriages; ALL men are dogs, or ALL women are whores or just want my money. This is ONE of the reasons why the Apostle Paul used to call the people CHILDREN; the answers are right in our face, but some STILL want to do things their own way, because temporary satisfaction is more attractive than DOING THE WORK and having a fulfilled relationship someday!

The meaning of 'TRAMA BOND' in an abusive relationship: An UNHEALTHY and strong bond between a victim and abuser, through repeated cycles of abuse and periodic kindness. A lot of empaths with narcissistic FLEAS are in trauma bond relationships with THEMSELVES. JUST THINK ABOUT IT: when you're meeting someone for the first time, and they set off the biggest RED FLAG, and you CONTINUE with them as opposed to getting up, walking away, and then DELETING them from your memory, you're trauma bonding YOURSELF, because you continue until you've been used AGAIN or whatever, and DON'T do the work; then you're back out there on REPEAT. I'm NOT trying to be cruel; I WANT to know people are in the type of relationships where you don't have to ask "Do you love me," but you'll KNOW in the way they treat you. The Bible speaks of this  very situation in the WISE book of  Proverbs 26:11: "As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool 'REPEATS' his folly." 

If you order ANY of my video lettercards, it's because one or more people ABUSED you financially, spiritually, or emotionally. Healing consists of more than going NO CONTACT; it's putting on your spiritual military clothes and going to WAR! You have a REAL devil who's out to get you. 1 Peter 5:8: Be ALERT and of a sober mind. Your enemy, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO DEVOUR. If you keep PLAYING with your life and TIME, you might NOT make it back. These NARCS are JOKES, but they're NOT joking; they don't care about your time or LIFE!

PLEASE BE 'CLEAR' ON THIS:

There isn't a DIFFERENCE between 'NARCISISTS.' They say there are OVERTS, COVERTS, COMMUNAL, MALIGNANT, ATAGNOSTIC, SOMATIC, RELIGIOUS, AND CEREBRAL; given the RIGHT situation, they'll convert into WHICHEVER; it just depends on the stage. If you tempt an overt with the right amount of money, they'll EASILY turn into the most dangerous, a Malignant. Even though they all have different ways about themselves, they're ALL "DEMONS." A chocolate chip cookie doesn't taste like an Oreo or an Oatmeal raisin; however, they're ALL cookies. So PLEASE UNDERSTAND that ANY of these Narcs WILL steal and even KILL!!!  That goes the same for 'TOXIC' people, PERIOD. Don't get it TWISTED, to DELIBERATELY try to drive someone out of their mind (make them think they're going crazy) through GASLIGHTING, and that person commits SUICIDE; YOU'RE TO BLAME.